Why Should I Know My Myers-Briggs Temperament?
Determining your Myers-Briggs temperament is one of the most important things you can do because it will help you understand your core needs, values, talents and behaviors!
Temperament theory suggests that we each have fundamental needs and desires that motivate us. There are 4 basic categories of temperament. Some people, for example, live for spontaneity and freedom (SPs), some for duty (SJs), some for control and understanding of the world (NTs) while others live for causes, self-realization and understanding of the self and others (NFs). These 4 temperament types have been referred to by various names but I like and will use Renee Baron's description of them in her book, "What Type Am I?" These names are: (1) Action Seekers, (2) Duty Seekers, (3) Knowledge Seekers and (4) Ideal Seekers.
The Myers-Briggs temperaments are part of the Myers-Briggs Typing System. There are 16 different Myers-Briggs types in this system and 4 different temperaments. After you have learned more about your Myers-Briggs temperament you may want to learn about your Myers-Briggs type by taking the Myers-Briggs Type Test. Each temperament correlates with 4 different Myers-Briggs types as follows:
Action Seekers: Sensing Perceiving Types (SP Temperament) The 4 SP types are: ESTP, ESFP, ISTP, ISFP SP's are motivated by the need for freedom and need to act. They value living in the moment.
Duty Seekers: Sensing Judging Types (SJ Temperament) The 4 SJ types are: ESTJ, ESFJ, ISTJ, ISFJ SJ's are motivated by the need to be responsible in whatever social group they are in, whether it be the family, the workplace, or the community. They value tradition.
Knowledge Seekers: iNtuiting Thinking Types (NT Temperament) The 4 NT types are: ENTJ, ENTP, INTJ, INTP NT's are motivated by a need for knowledge and competency. They value the theoretical and the powers of the mind.
Ideal Seekers: iNtuiting Feeling Types (NF Temperament) The 4 NF types are: ENFJ, ENFP, INFJ, INFP NF's are motivated by a need to understand themselves and others. They value authenticity and integrity and strive for an ideal world.
The Temperament Comparison Table [back to Index of Temperament Types] This table is partly derived from the 4 personal styles table on page 39 of "Follow Your True Colors to the Work You Love" by Carolyn Kalil and Don Lowry.
THE ACTION SEEKER (SP Temperament) [back to Index of Temperament Types]
Action
Seekers need freedom to act on their impulses, to take immediate action and have
an ability to make an impact in the moment. A zest for life in the
here and now and a desire to test the limits best express their nature.
They can't stand being restricted or controlled. They are spontaneous,
optimistic and trust their impulses to lead them in the right direction.
They are keen observers of the environment and have a commonsense, hands-on
approach to problem-solving. Action
Seekers enjoy a positive, upbeat partner who will share in their many
experiences and adventures. They like living the good life and are
constantly making plans for fun-filled adventures. They seem to have
realistic expectations of themselves, others, and life, and don't waste energy
wishing things were different from what they are. They take what people
say at face value and are not particularly interested in figuring out underlying
motives or hidden meanings. They just want to live life and experience it
to the fullest. They don't need to analyze and understand it. As
a parent Action Seekers can be enthusiastic, playful, and expose their children
to many adventures. They give their children freedom and autonomy and
respect their individual wishes and desires. They just want their children
to do something practical with their lives and find work that they enjoy.
As a parent they can be overly permissive, nondirective, and fail to provide
consistency, discipline, or planning for the future. As
a child and teen Action Seekers were often too busy doing activities and having
fun to take time to sit down and study -- or at least wished they were.
They often jump from one thing to another, but can be involved in any activity
for an extended period of time if it captures their attention. Because
they are risk-takers and enjoy immediate gratification, they sometimes find
themselves in trouble when they "leap before they look." Action
Seekers dislike long lectures and explanations and often shun intellectual
pursuits. An action-centered, hands-on curriculum works best for them.
They like subjects that are practical, relevant, and immediately rewarding.
They like to make work fun and want their career to be stimulating and exciting.
They like risk and challenge and respond well to crisis. They especially
enjoy using their hands or body, as in sports or with crafts and machines. Action
Seekers with a strong Extraverting preference (ESTP, ESFP) are more talkative,
gregarious, and initiate activities with friends. Action Seekers who have
a strong Introverting preference (ISTP, ISFP) are reserved and more interested
in their inner world of thoughts and one-on-one conversations. Unfortunately,
Action Seeker children's natural talents and abilities are often overlooked and
undeveloped in schools that use traditional teaching methods. As a result,
many Action Seeker children underestimate themselves and suffer from low
self-esteem because the sit-down, follow-directions, speak-when-spoken-to school
structure goes against their nature. They are sometimes labeled as
hyperactive, or as having Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD). Some even drop
out and return to school only if they see that an education will be useful and
practical in their lives. Typical
Action Seeker Values
Typical
Annoyances and Stressors for Action Seekers
Typical
Action Seeker Natural Gifts and Talents Assembling things
- fitting together the parts of things Coaching
- training intensively by instruction, demonstration, and practice Competing
- challenging another for the purpose of winning Constructing
- building something Dancing - performing rhythmic and
patterned bodily movements Displaying things
- arranging something in an eye-catching exhibit Drafting
- drawing the preliminary sketch, version, or plan for something Entertaining
- performing publicly for amusement Gardening
- cultivating a plot of ground with herbs, fruits, flowers or vegetables Illustrating
- providing visual features intended to explain or decorate Influencing others
- causing an effect on others Manipulating
- treating or operating with the hands or by mechanical means Manufacturing
- making from raw materials by hand or by machinery Marketing
- planning and strategizing how to present a product or service in the
marketplace Negotiating
- conferring with another so as to arrive at the settlement of some matter Operating tools
- skillfully handling tools to perform work Operating vehicles
- driving cabs, limousines, heavy equipment, etc. Performing
- practicing an art that involves public performance Persuading
- influencing others in favor of a product, service, or point of view Promoting
- persuading people to see the value of an idea, person, activity or cause Public Speaking
- expressing yourself before a group Repairing
- restoring by replacing a part or putting together what is torn or broken Responding to emergencies
- being spontaneous and level-headed in emergency situations Risk taking
- having a dangerous element to life Selling - promoting a service or
product with the intent of getting someone to buy or accept it in exchange for
something, usually money
How
to get along with Action Seekers
Further Description of Key Action Seeker CharacteristicsCore NeedsFreedom
to Act on Impulses: To
understand Action Seekers, you really must grasp the nature of being impulse
driven. This does not mean that they are totally impulsive and irresponsible. It
does mean that well-functioning Action Seekers have managed to arrange their
lives in such a way that they get to respond to impulses. These impulses are not
just about fun or zany things; they often form the basis for exceptional problem
solving. These impulses build inside them, and given that impulses do not last
long, there is a tremendous urge to act on them. Action Seekers trust these
impulses, and when all is going well, these impulses serve them well. When the
impulses are no longer there, or when they have too many restrictions, Action
Seekers suffer incredible stress and say they feel bored or empty. Ability
to Make an Impact:
Many of us want to have an impact, but the need for the Action Seeker to elicit
an immediate response from others is stronger and more concrete (here and now)
than for the rest of us. This need for impact also shows in the drive to action
to get a result. ValuesAn
appreciation of Aesthetics, the sensuous beauty of the immediate
experience, captures an essential aspect of this temperament. Action Seekers
value Variety, which is the essential aspect of art. The influence of
their core needs shows in their drive to Action and love of Excitement
and Stimulation and Immediate Adventure. Whatever they do, they
want to Perform with Skill and appreciate skill in the performance
of others as well. The relationships they seek are Fraternal –
camaraderie with equals. Typical RolesOperator
or Maneuverer: Action
Seekers are often found in these roles in relation to people or machines; with
people there is an element of persuasion. These roles require that they define
the relationship and be more directive. In these roles, they might run a
business, troubleshoot problems, train others, maneuver bills through Congress,
operate equipment, and so on. Player
or Performer:
These roles are more informative and allow for the tremendous talent of the
Action Seeker in creating variations on a theme. Take the meanings in a general
sense and notice how Action Seekers, especially Informing Action Seekers, make a
performance out of anything. Troubleshooter/Negotiator:
To troubleshoot means to "read" a situation and see an opportunity or
a solution to a problem. It requires a here-and-now focus and an ability to
improvise. Negotiation requires reading very slight nonverbal cues to know just
what someone is willing to give and then getting the two sides to agree. Crisis
Manager:
Action Seekers are usually quite adept at managing a crisis, even though some
don't like crises. A crisis provides the opportunity to use their talents. It
meets their needs and values of responding to impulses, excitement, and
stimulation and making an impact. Typical SkillsTactics:
This means skillful management for a desired result. Tactics are an immediate
action to achieve a desired end. It requires reading the immediate situation and
making instant decisions in line with an objective. (Note that many people do
not think of Action Seekers as decisive, but they can be very decisive.) Variation:
This is the ability to vary something while keeping its essence the same. Action
Seekers are masters of the free variable. It is nearly impossible for them to
not vary things. Contextual
Thinking:
Action Seekers tend to reference everything to the present context. This
tendency allows them to see the relevance of things, how they fit, and to notice
when something is awry. Action Seekers prefer to learn in the applied context
and tend not to like learning in the abstract. Promote:
This refers to the ability to see what someone's interest is in something or
what someone's self‑serving interest might be. Action Seekers do this
especially well as they "read" very slight nonverbal cues. Adapt:
This is to make small adjustments to make something fit. Action Seekers do this
themselves as well as with objects and situations. Perform:
This means to do, to get things done. Given their core need to have impact,
Action Seekers are skilled at making even the most mundane act a performance. BehaviorsImpact
Centered: Much of the
behavior of Action Seekers is centered around creating an immediate impact, to
see people's eyes light up or get a result from their actions. Seizing
Opportunities:
Constantly reading behaviors and situations, Action Seekers often see
opportunities others are not aware of. Epicurean:
This refers to a love of pleasures of the senses. Action Seekers want things to
taste good, smell good, feel good, sound good, and look good. Sometimes neatness
is about this aesthetic sense. Spontaneous:
Action Seekers are responsive to immediate situations and needs or even the
impulse of the moment. Restless:
When there is a drive for action but waiting is called for, restlessness
results. This may take the form of some kind of movement. Entertaining:
Very often Action Seekers love to entertain with their performances from
flamboyance to a quiet remark that makes people laugh. Impulsive:
Action Seekers are so quick to read the needs of a situation, their behavior
looks more impulsive than it may be. Present
Orientation:
Action Seekers are oriented to the here and now. This orientation is clearly
related to the need for freedom to act on impulses as impulses only occur in the
present. Fast
Reacting:
Action Seekers frequently react instantly to stimuli or circumstances. Risk
Taking:
Where else would you find excitement and stimulation? Also, when you trust your
impulses, you may not perceive situations as full of risk. The perception of
risk may be in the eye of the beholder. Improvising:
To compose or perform on the spur of the moment, without any preparation. This
also means making do with what is at hand and making up or creating an
adaptation. Cynical:
The basic stance of the Action Seeker is cynicism. This is an astute ability to
recognize that people do things for their own benefit and therefore to
automatically question the altruism or goodness of their motives. Stories:
Action Seekers communicate best with stories since stories entertain, have
impact, are concrete and contextual. Anecdotes bring abstract material to life
and instill it with action. Colloquial
Language:
Action Seekers tend to be on the cutting edge with their language. It, too, is
contextual. They are such masters at variation that they vary language in such a
way that they create the current buzzword of the day.
THE DUTY SEEKER (SJ Temperament) [back to Index of Temperament Types]
The
Duty Seeker's strengths are being realistic, practical, responsible and loyal.
They like to stick to standard ways of doing things. They respect and
honor the traditions, customs, and laws of society which give them a sense of
safety, stability, and belonging. Feeling useful and needed is important
to them. Being of service and making things run the way they should gives
then satisfaction. Consequently, they have high expectations of themselves
and others. At
work, Duty Seekers like to be fully in charge of their area of responsibility.
They want to be useful and have difficulty refusing to take on extra
assignments. Their attitude is "If I don't do it, who will?"
They have a strong work ethic and believe that everyone can make something of
himself or herself if they just work hard enough. Duty
Seekers want to contribute to institutions they serve and they bring stability
to an organization. They like jobs where performance is judged by
established rules and explicitly stated criteria. They pay attention to an
organization's hierarchy, have respect for the chain of command, and rely on
stated policies and standard operating procedures. Their natural
resistance to change can be reduced once they understand the rationale behind
the change. In order to accept new ideas, they need to see the practical
applications and benefits. Their approach to problem-solving is to apply
past experience and follow the rules. They are usually precise with data,
good with facts and figures and pay attention to detail. They can be
sticklers for accuracy in fact. They have a good sense of time so they are
realistic about how long it takes to complete tasks. Duty
Seekers generally don't like surprises, and have a gift for anticipating
problems that might disrupt their stability. They have a tendency to make
decisions too quickly without considering possible options. They are
famous for having a good grasp of "common sense" in whatever they do.
Unfortunately, they sometimes have a hard time seeing beyond their common sense
to consider the suggestions of others. Duty
Seekers are loyal and faithful partners and take their personal commitments and
obligations seriously. They often feel more comfortable being the giver or
caretaker than being the receiver. They tend to feel at ease in the
traditional roles of provider or homemaker. When not appreciated, they can
feel bitter and hurt, but they have difficulty expressing it. They can be
pessimistic and worry excessively and think people who don't worry are
irresponsible. When
stressed, Duty Seekers can be pessimistic and see no way out of difficult
situations. They tend to imagine worst-case scenarios rather than positive
possibilities. They like to anticipate bad news and are generally prepared
for setbacks and unpredictable events which they believe are bound to occur.
At work they are often put in charge of disaster planning. They save their
money and are willing to make sacrifices in the present for the sake of future
security. Duty
Seekers provide an ordered and predictable environment for their children.
They may find it difficult to allow their children independence and
self-expression. Commitment to family is seen as a responsibility and
breaking family rules is seen as disloyalty. They can sometimes instill
guilt in their children when they don't meet their expectations.
Duty Seeker parents
want their children to have the "proper" social attitudes and to obey
the rules of society. They tend to place importance on grades, college,
and traditional education, and they encourage practical careers. Duty
Seekers with a strong Extraverting preference (ESTJ, ESFJ) are more talkative,
gregarious, and initiate activities with friends. Duty Seekers who have a
strong Introverting preference (ISTJ, ISFJ) are more reserved and interested in
their inner world of thoughts and one-on-one conversations. As
children and teens Duty Seekers are reliable and conscientious, and they try to
please adults. They become very responsible starting at an early age and
can act like a parent toward other children, or even toward their own parents.
They thrive in an organized environment where there are clearly defined rules
and routines. They prefer subjects that deal with facts and have practical
application such as history, geography, civics, biology, math, spelling, typing,
computers, or business. They like to participate in school activities and
feel a sense of belonging.
Typical
Duty Seeker Values
Typical
Annoyances and Stressors for Duty Seekers
Typical
Duty Seeker Natural Gifts and Talents Administering
policies
- managing a course or method of action Allocating resources
- designing resources for a specific purpose Attending to detail
- paying attention to small items Bookkeeping
- recording the accounts or transactions of a business Budgeting
- planning the amount of money that is available for, required for, or assigned
to a particular purpose Calculating
- determining by mathematical means Caretaking
- taking care of the physical needs of others, especially children, the sick and
the elderly Collecting data
- gathering information Coordinating
- taking care of logistics for events to flow smoothly Decision-making
- bringing things to a conclusion Delegating
- entrusting responsibilities to other people Dispatching
- sending off or away with promptness Establishing procedures
- constructing a series of steps to be followed in accomplishing something Estimating cost
- judging approximately the value or worth of something Evaluating
- appraising the worth, significance or status of something Following directions
- doing specifically the things told to do by others verbally or in writing Following through
- completing an activity planned or begun Guarding
- protecting or defending Maintaining schedules
- overseeing something designated for a fixed, future time Maintaining records
- accurate and up-to-date record-keeping Managing
- directing or conducting business or affairs Monitoring
- watching, observing, or checking for a specific purpose Organizing
- arranging things in a systematic order Paying attention to detail
- looking for smaller elements Planning
- making a way of proceeding Preparing
- getting something ready for use or getting ready for some occasion Recording
- putting things in writing Regulating
- governing or directing according to rule or law Securing
- relieving from exposure to danger Serving - making a contribution to the
welfare of others Supervising
- taking responsibility for the work done by others
How
to get along with Duty Seekers
Further Description of Key Duty Seeker Characteristics
Core
Needs
Membership
or Belonging: There is a strong need for connectedness and affiliation
among Duty Seekers. Responsibility
or Duty:
Duty Seekers need to be and feel responsible. They hunger for responsibility.
This need is so strong that they will take on too many responsibilities at
times, and if they do not feel that they have done the responsible thing, they
will experience stress. Values
The
relationships Duty Seekers foster are based on bonds within a group. Hierarchical
Procedures let them know the structure of the relationships, and that in
turn provides Stability and Security. Rules and Regulations
and Conformity serve to Preserve Social Groups. RolesMonitor
or Overseer: It suits the Duty Seeker temperament well to make sure that
things are done right, and more directive Duty Seekers frequently find
themselves in-monitoring and overseeing roles. In these roles, they are often
given the authority required to regulate and standardize to keep production
quality consistent. Conservator
or Provider:
More informative Duty Seekers are drawn to these roles. In this way they
contribute to maintaining life by saving and providing. They facilitate and
accommodate, making life easier and more comfortable for those in their charge. Stabilizer/Traditionalist:
In a group, Duty Seekers are likely to be the ones who focus on traditional ways
of doing things. This provides the stability to ensure that life goes on. Be
aware that traditions vary according to the group. The membership group is what
is important, not tradition in the absolute sense. Rule
Maker/Enforcer:
Given their core need for responsibility and duty, Duty Seekers often find
themselves making rules and enforcing them. Rules make things predictable and
stable, as well as facilitate accountability. SkillsLogistics:
Getting the right things and the right information in the right place, at the
right time, in the right quantity, in the right quality, to the right people,
and not to the wrong people. All manner of things are logistical. Measurement:
Measurement is an important aspect of logistics. Duty Seekers are most
interested in accurate measurement. Sequential
Thinking:
Duty Seekers naturally look at things in sequence and are very interested in
putting first things first and getting them in order. Supervise:
They take very seriously the responsibility of making sure things are done
right. Protect:
Protecting is one important way of preserving the world. Provide:
Duty Seekers take pride in their ability to provide for others, either for their
comfort or their material well-being. BehaviorsAuthority
Centered: Duty Seekers are quite concerned with authority. They want to have
the necessary authority to do what they are supposed to do, and they want those
giving orders to be duly authorized to do so. Stabilizing
Organizations:
In organizations, Duty Seekers often work toward making the organization stable.
They put great stock in the procedures, rules, and regulations that make the
organization last. Economical:
The drive to preserve life often translates into conserving resources-money,
time, energy, and so on. Duty Seekers hate to waste resources and may
focus on money-saving efforts. Structured:
They want structure in what they do – sequence, schedule, a beginning and an
end. Dependable:
Duty Seekers usually can be counted on to follow through on commitments. They
often are so dependable that they are taken for granted. This does not mean they
are the only ones who are dependable. It is just that they must be dependable or
they feel shame. Appraising:
One of their talents is to notice when something is missing or not done right.
Thus, they are prone to be critical of things that are out place or not done
according to accepted standards or social norms. Meticulous:
Duty Seekers are very careful of small details that others may not notice. These
are usually logistical. Past
Orientation:
Duty Seekers look to the past to know what to trust for the future. Their point
of reference is what has gone before and the tangible sense of their
experiences. Cautious/Careful:
Wanting to protect and preserve, Duty Seekers are alert to danger and the
possible things that could go wrong. They frequently give cautions and warnings
about these negative possibilities. They recognize Murphy's Law - if anything
can go wrong, it will - and prepare so things don't go wrong. Responsible:
They generally are very responsible, but that does not mean they never break
rules or do irresponsible things. It does mean that they are likely to feel
ashamed if they have not behaved responsibly. Standardizing:
Logistics become much easier when things are standardized and uniform. Fatalistic:
This refers to the willingness to accept situations the way they are and not
expecting them to change. This does not mean Duty Seekers are not willing to
change; they just don't waste resources on change for change's sake. Not
expecting things to change allows them to conserve resources. Comparisons:
Given their sequential thinking style, Duty Seekers frequently compare one thing
to another. It is by making a connection to what they already know that they
understand, explain, and trust. Customary Language: In keeping with their traditional bent, Duty Seekers tend to use the language of the group to which they belong. They are not prone to be on the cutting edge of word use but will use words as they become more accepted among their peers.
THE IDEAL SEEKER (NF Temperament) [back to Index of Temperament Types]
Ideal
Seekers direct their intuition and insight toward understanding themselves and
others. They value integrity and strive for genuineness and authenticity.
They tend to have a vision of an ideal world and want to work toward creating
that vision here on earth. Seen as overly optimistic by others, they
genuinely strive for an ideal they believe is real. They enjoy work that
allows them to use their creativity and individuality, and are not content to
just make a living. NF's like to use their insight to benefit other people
and many focus their attention and energy on helping others to realize their
potential. They are often sensitive to others' emotional needs and are
skillful at bringing out the best in people. They can be disappointed when
projects or people don't turn out as they expected, because they put so much
faith and energy into them. They
like working in a friendly, conflict-free environment where personal and
professional growth and development are encouraged. They can be
self-righteous about their values and take offense if others don't accept their
ideas. Working with people who don't encourage, appreciate, and affirm
them can be difficult. They have a strong desire for harmony and are good
at conflict resolution. Ideal
Seekers like being mentally stimulated and coming up with new ideas and
solutions. After the initial challenge or newness disappears, they can get
bored with a project. They dislike standard procedures and tight
supervision and can be too idealistic and independent-minded to work in most
corporate, government, or military environments. Ideal Seekers can have an
anti-authoritarian attitude and often take sides with the underdog. Ideal
Seekers are warmhearted, affirming, nurturing, and empathic. They can
become overly involved in other people's psyches and lives, and must guard
against sympathizing with another's hurt beyond what the person is actually
experiencing. They dream of having a deeply fulfilling and meaningful
relationship with an "ideal" partner. They like talking with
their partner about plans and goals for the future. Many Ideal Seekers
enjoy sharing ideas, values, dreams, philosophy, spirituality, and new ways of
seeing things. A lot of effort, emotion, and enthusiasm is invested in
their relationships, sometimes more than a partner of another temperament is
comfortable with. They frequently respond to the emotional demands of
others and can feel overwhelmed, pressured, and exhausted if they don't set
boundaries. If they feel too suffocated by others, they can disappear. Ideal
Seekers seek self-actualization and meaning in their lives, and are interested
in understanding and expressing their feelings. They can become
self-absorbed in their search for identity, tending to take everything
personally. They are easily hurt, sometimes even crushed, by criticism. As
parents, Ideal Seekers are affirming and encouraging and feel a strong sense of
responsibility to help develop their children's minds and spirits. They
try to motivate, mold, and direct their children toward worthwhile goals and
values. They can be good listeners and tolerant of a child's moods and
emotions. Ideal Seekers encourage their children's individuality and
creativity even if very different from their own. Ideal
Seekers who have a Perceiving preference (ENFP, INFP) often have a relaxed
parenting style and can find it hard to set boundaries and to provide structure
and consistency. Ideal Seekers who have a Judging preference (ENFJ, INFJ)
tend to be more consistent, systematic, and predictable as parents. Their
boundaries are more clearly defined. As
children and teens, Ideal Seekers have rich and active imaginations. They
are curious and innovative and are often involved in creative activities.
They are satisfied with the broad grasp of a subject without needing to master
the facts or details. They are cooperative and want to be affirmed by
adults and other children. They can, however, be unyielding if they feel
misunderstood or if their values are violated. Tense or hostile
environments are especially difficult for children of this temperament.
Ideal
Seekers with a preference for Extraverting (ENFJ, ENFP) tend to be outgoing,
talkative, and gregarious. Ideal Seekers with a preference for
Introverting (INFJ, INFP) are more reserved and absorbed with their inner world.
Typical
Ideal Seeker Values
Typical
Annoyances and Stressors for Ideal Seekers
Typical
Ideal Seeker Natural Gifts and Talents Acknowledging
others
- recognizing and validating others for who they are Building rapport
- bringing harmony to a relationship Building self-esteem
- helping others feel good about themselves Communicating
- effectively exchanging verbal or written information with others Consulting
- giving professional advice Coordinating
- bringing people and activities together in a harmonious way Counseling
- helping others with their personal and professional problems Enlightening
- giving spiritual insight Expressing feelings
- openly communicating feelings with other people Facilitating groups
- assisting a group to harmoniously move in a positive direction Fostering
- nurturing Guiding others
- steering or directing people in a positive direction Healing - restoring health Helping others
- improving the lives of others Influencing others
- having an effect on the lives of other people Inspiring others
- having an exalting influence upon others Interviewing others
- using good communication skills to obtain information from another person Leading - acting as a positive role
model more than being in a position of power or authority Listening
- hearing and paying attention to what others have to say Mentoring
- coaching and supporting others in the direction they want to go in Motivating
- acting as a catalyst to move others to action Nurturing
- developing and fostering the potential in others Public speaking
- effectively using language to make speeches in public Recruiting
- getting others involved in whatever they believe in Supporting others
- assisting others emotionally Teaching
- enlightening others and motivating them to learn Training
- directing the growth of others Visualizing
- imagining possibilities Working as a team
- bringing a group together to meet a common goal
How
to get along with Ideal Seekers
Further Description of Key Ideal Seeker CharacteristicsCore NeedsMeaning
and Significance: Ideal
Seekers feel the need to contribute to the "greater good," to do
something beyond the material and more toward the ideal. Unique
Identity:
Ideal Seekers are forever in search of the answer to the question, "Who am
I?" ValuesThe
values are closely related to the core needs. An integral part of Ideal Seekers'
need for meaning and significance and unique identity is their search for
wholeness and Unity, thus their high value on Cooperative Interaction
and Empathic Relationships. If they do not have empathic, very personal
relationships, they feel a sense of loss and emptiness. They will devote a great
deal of time and energy to fostering and maintaining these relationships. Not
only must these relationships be empathic, but they must also be Authentic.
Ideal Seekers place a high value on being authentic and genuine themselves and
want nothing fake or phony in their relationships. Ideal Seekers place a high
value on Ethics and Morality and wanting to live in an Idealized and
Meaningful World. RolesAdvocate
or Proponent:
Most Ideal Seekers advocate and spread the word. Informing Ideal Seekers find
these roles particularly satisfying since these are information-giving roles. Catalyst
and Romantic Idealist roles are directly related to the core needs and
values. In any relationship, Ideal Seekers are often catalysts for bringing out
the best in others. People often report being more productive and creative in
their presence. This makes Ideal Seekers' actual "job" difficult to
see and describe in tangible ways. As romantic Ideal Seekers, they are not only
romantic in the sense of love and romance; they tend toward the fanciful and
imaginative. SkillsDiplomacy:
Ideal Seekers tend to build bridges between people and help them resolve deep
issues behind conflict. This still is related to the core values of empathic
relationships and unity. Interpretation:
Ideal Seekers have a talent for explaining to others what people mean or intend
and to transform the communication while maintaining the meaning. Integrative
Thinking:
Ideal Seekers have a talent for seeing similarities across sometimes disparate
categories. It is related to the core value of unity. Counsel:
Ideal Seekers seem to know what to say to help others help themselves. Reveal:
They seem to have an antenna that allows them to know others' deeper motivations
and a talent for expressing that knowledge so others also know it. Facilitate:
This term is used in the sense of easing relationships between people, of
drawing out issues that need to be addressed. BehaviorsRelationship
Centered: Ideal Seekers'
lives revolve around relationships, deep empathic ones. When push comes to
shove, relationships will win out over tasks. They are willing to expend a great
deal of energy to preserve relationships. Creating
Harmony: They will go to
great lengths to create harmony in relationships. This does not mean they are
totally averse to addressing conflict, and they will in fact brave conflict for
the greater good of future harmony and integrity. Spiritual:
Ideal Seekers tend to focus on some greater good and often engage in spiritual
practices. Warm-Hearted:
Ideal Seekers' tendency to instantly empathize with others makes them appear
caring or warm-hearted. Involved:
They can be very involved and committed to relationships and causes. They tend
to be intense. This is related to the values of empathic relationships and an
idealized and meaningful world. Praising:
Ideal Seekers are natural givers of sincere compliments. It is almost as if they
are often capable of seeing positive aspects that others miss. They believe that
you bring out the best in people through praise. They are sometimes blind to
faults and certainly are not prone to focus on them. Impressionistic:
They often have vague global impressions that are very meaningful and
significant to them, which they trust. This is the opposite of the demand for
precision of the Knowledge Seeker. Future
Time Orientation:
Ideal Seekers are pulled by their vision of the ideal world in the future. Their
focus is on "how it can to be", not on "how it is." Inspiring:
When they have a cause, they inspire others to action. This behavior springs
from their strongly held beliefs. Empathic:
To be empathic is to feel what others feel. There seem to be two kinds of
empathy. One is feeling what others feel when in their presence. The other is
more predictive, knowing how others will feel in a given situation. Imagining:
Reflecting their idealistic, future orientation, Ideal Seekers tend to be
imaginative, dreaming up all kinds of possible scenarios. Credulous:
Ideal Seekers tend to believe. They want to believe in the goodness in everyone
and start with a position of faith first, skepticism second. Metaphors:
Metaphors build bridges between people by giving a common experience they can
relate to, thereby increasing understanding. Ideal Seekers tend to develop
metaphors easily, and their language is often rich with them. These metaphors
are often deeply symbolic. Global
Language:
Their language tends to mirror their impressions and they often speak in broad,
general terms. Thus others can see their own personal meanings in what the Ideal
Seeker has said and thus have their own unique identity. While this global
language usually has a positive effect, it can sometimes lead to
misunderstanding.
THE KNOWLEDGE SEEKER (NT Temperament) [back to Index of Temperament Types]
Knowledge
Seekers value knowledge and competency. They prize intelligence in
themselves and others, and feel compelled to constantly improve their base of
knowledge. Problem solving and mastering new challenges are stimulating.
They are often ingenious and insightful, adept at theorizing and
conceptualizing, and strive to understand and explain the world around them. Knowledge
Seekers understand and synthesize complex information, anticipate future trends,
and focus on long-range goals. They enjoy new ways of doing things:
developing, designing, and building models, theories, and systems. Dealing
with day-to-day details and facts holds little or no interest to them, and is
best if left to others. They aim for self-mastery in everything they do
and want to make a unique contribution to their field of work. Knowledge
Seekers value independence and autonomy and dislike hierarchy and bureaucratic
structure. They can be argumentative and opinionated when information from
authorities contradicts what they believe. They prefer a work environment
that is based on objective and fair standards, and where achieving major goals
and breakthroughs is part of the routine. They desire recognition and
admiration mainly from peers who are competent in their field. They have
strong convictions, trust their own judgments, and stand on principles no matter
what the consequences. They are skeptical of public opinion. Knowledge
Seekers can come across as know-it-alls and be critical of others' ideas.
They are complex and can be difficult for people of other temperaments to
understand. Because of the high standards they set for themselves, they
can have a sense of inadequacy and self-doubt about their capabilities.
Sometimes they become self-critical, disheartened, and/or depressed if their own
need for self-improvement falls short of these standards. Knowledge
Seekers share connections of the mind more than those of the heart. They
like relating through mental challenges such as interesting discussions, or
games of chess and bridge. They enjoy intellectual exchanges and like to
argue and debate many sides of an issue. Knowledge
Seekers often live for their work and intellectual pursuits. Relationships
can take a backseat. They can be oblivious of social conventions and may
forget to observe rituals such as anniversaries or birthdays. They are
more comfortable expressing thoughts than feelings, and can be unaware and
uncomfortable with others' feelings and sensitivities. They dislike
discussing personal issues and sentimentality, but they can let their guard down
with people they trust. If they feel rejected, they usually keep it to
themselves. Knowledge
Seeker parents place strong value on knowledge and learning. They foster
intellectual independence and want their children to grow up expressing
independent thought. They take family responsibilities seriously but can
pursue their careers and intellectual interests at the expense of spending time
with their families. Expressing warmth and affection to their children can
be difficult. Knowledge Seekers with a preference for Judging (ENTJ, INTJ)
are often firm and consistent disciplinarians and tend to be controlling.
Knowledge Seekers with a preference for Perceiving (ENTP, INTP) are often more
accepting and tolerant of their children's differences and don't try to impose
their will on them. Knowledge
Seeker children and teens enjoy learning but need to be challenged or they may
become bored. They are inquisitive and constantly questioning. Knowledge
Seekers can be argumentative, strong-willed, and opinionated, and they are
sensitive to being treated unjustly or unfairly. They are frequently
either high achievers, at the top of their class (more often ENTJ or INTJ), or
they feel school is a waste of time and are not interested in grades (more often
ENTP or INTP). They like to be independent and often study subjects
unrelated to the curriculum. College
is often more challenging and rewarding where they have more independence and
can find other Knowledge Seekers to relate to. Knowledge Seekers with a
preference for Extraverting (ENTJ, ENTP) are often sociable and involved in
school activities. Knowledge Seekers with a preference for Introverting (INTJ,
INTP) enjoy being alone with their interests and are not as likely to
participate in social activities. Typical
Knowledge Seeker Values
Typical
Annoyances and Stressors for Knowledge Seekers
Typical
Knowledge Seeker Natural Gifts and Talents Analyzing
- separating or distinguishing the component parts of something to discover its
true nature or inner relationships Conceptualizing
- forming abstract ideas in the mind Consulting
- giving technical information or providing ideas to define, clarify or sharpen
procedures, capabilities, or product specifications Critiquing
- analyzing, evaluating, or appreciating works of art Curing - restoring to health after a
disease Debating
- discussing a question by considering opposing arguments Designing
- mentally conceiving and planning Developing
- making something available to improve a situation Diagnosing
- analyzing the cause or nature of a condition, situation, or problem Editing - improving and directing
publications Generating ideas
- brainstorming or dreaming up ideas Intellectualizing
- using the intellect rather than emotion or experience Interpreting ideas
- explaining the meaning of ideas Inventing
- developing or creating something for the first time Learning
- gaining knowledge Observing
- examining people, data, or things scientifically Problem solving
- identifying key issues or factors in a problem, generating ideas and solutions
to solve the problem, selecting the best approach, testing and evaluating it Proofreading
- reading and marking corrections Reasoning
- using the process of conception, judgment, or inference Researching
- investigating and experimenting aimed at the discovery and interpretation of
facts Synthesizing
- integrating ideas and information Thinking logically
- subjecting ideas to the process of logical thought Writing - expressing by means of words How
to get along with Knowledge Seekers
Further Description of Key Knowledge Seeker Characteristics
Core
Needs
Mastery
and Self-Control:
Knowledge Seekers want to master whatever they set their minds to, while being
able to predict courses of events. They must feel as if they have will power and
control over themselves. Knowledge
and Competence:
Their worst fear is to be incompetent. They want to know and understand the
operating principles of the universe. Developing new knowledge, solving abstract
problems, conducting scientific research, and being an expert all meet these
needs. ValuesKnowledge
Seekers seek Objective Knowledge and Truth, Concepts, Ideas,
and studying. Knowledge Seekers promote Progress and Scientific
Inquiry. They frequently find themselves in Expert Relationships
where their friendships revolve around shared expertise and talking about
knowledge. And of course, these all relate to Intelligence, as it is
traditionally defined. It isn't just logic that appeals to Knowledge Seekers,
but Logical Consistency. This means that they want arguments and
persuasions to be logical throughout. They are most likely to look at the whole
system and value the logic of it. RolesOrganizer
or Director: More directive
and structured Knowledge Seekers find themselves drawn to the roles of organizer
and director. These roles involve defining relationships, which Directing
Knowledge Seekers are quite comfortable doing. The organizing is usually of a
strategic, rather than a logistical, nature. Engineer
or Inventor:
More informative and process-oriented Knowledge Seekers find themselves in
design roles that require keeping the information flowing to make sure that
every contingency is covered. Think of engineering and inventing in a very broad
sense. These roles are design roles and require analysis, usually of complex
systems. Visionary:
This role comes naturally to most Knowledge Seekers. They find it almost
impossible to not think ahead, often way ahead of their time. Perpetual
Learner:
This role relates to the core needs of knowledge and competence. Other
temperaments like to learn, but for Knowledge Seekers, learning is sustenance. SkillsStrategy:
Knowledge Seekers tend to think of all the possible contingencies and develop
multiple plans for handling all of them. In strategy, there is a level of
abstraction required that is missing from the more logistical planning of the
Guardian. To be strategic, one has to abstractly analyze a situation and
consider heretofore unthought-of possibilities. Analysis:
Knowledge Seekers have a talent for being at least one step removed from
something, considering it in abstractness. Distinguishing components and their
interrelationships involves the use of reasoning. Differential
Thinking:
Talent for seeing differences. This penchant is so inherent in the intelligence
of Knowledge Seekers that they can hardly stop themselves from seeing
differences. Marshal:
Marshaling is the tendency to lead or guide or array personnel in order, which
is tied to strategy. Taken in this sense, it is the ability to see what skills
are needed and to find people of the necessary expertise to get the job done and
then mobilize them to do it. Design:
This is design in the sense of thinking of all the components necessary to make
a system or an object work. The focus is not on variation as with the Artisan's
design work. Knowledge Seekers usually design a whole system, considering all
the relevant aspects. Categorize:
Categories are naturally created from Knowledge Seekers' differential thinking.
This categorization process is integral to the mental functioning of Knowledge
Seekers. Some engage in it so much that they won't file things until the proper
categories are set up! BehaviorsKnowledge
Centered: Nearly everything
Knowledge Seekers do is centered around the acquisition and sharing of
knowledge. If they had their way, everyone would pursue knowledge (which they
define differently than just information!) Forming
Hypotheses:
Knowledge Seekers approach nearly everything as a hypothesis. This is closely
related to the need for knowledge and valuing scientific inquiry. Theoretical:
Knowledge Seekers seem to have a capacity to look at situations from many
different perspectives and to engage in "as if" thinking. Cold-Logical:
When one's favorite skills are to objectively analyze and when one's values
center on concepts and knowledge, it can appear that one is cold in one's use of
logic. This does not mean that Knowledge Seekers are without feeling; rather, to
be objectively logical, they believe one must separate from emotion. The
frequent use of "one" instead of personal pronouns is an example of
this objectivity. Oblivious:
Knowledge Seekers can be so much "in their heads" (deep in thought)
that they notice little else. They have the capacity to become so absorbed in
thought as to not notice people or events around them, even if they are truly
sensitive to these much of the time. Critiquing:
Analysis is not limited to objective events or data. It also gets applied to
oneself, especially when one has not lived up to a level of competence expected
of oneself. Perfectionistic:
Actually, all types can be perfectionistic in some ways about some things. For
Knowledge Seekers, this perfectionism usually applies to theories and concepts
as well as the accurate expression of them. Infinite
Time Orientation:
While they are future oriented in their strategic orientation, they often do not
think of time. Rather, they are in pursuit of the ultimate truths or theories
that transcend time-past, present, future. (This does not mean they are always
late!) Problem
Solving:
So great is the hunger for solving problems that they may seek out problems to
solve. This is the application of analysis. Analytical:
Given that analysis is one of their favorite skills, they tend to analyze a
situation before they do anything else so they can take a strategic approach. Inventing:
Knowledge Seekers enjoy devising new and better ways of doing things. They
rarely can stand to do something the same way twice. Skeptical:
In keeping with their theoretical and analytical stance, Knowledge Seekers
question everything. They realize there is always another way to view things, so
they accept very little on faith. Conditionals:
Their language reflects their theoretical approach to life and is full of
phrases like, "if...then", "tends to", "hypothetically
speaking", and so on. Precise
Language:
They want the words chosen to express precisely what is intended and may nitpick
over the tiniest nuance of meaning. They are offended by imprecise and vague
language. Sometimes the "if" is unspoken or often unheard and others
assume a definiteness that is not there.
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